When we have lived a relationship for some times, we might end up getting trapped in a classic situation: that what we have is no longer something special, that it’s just a routine we have to live in. We’ve known our spouse’s habit quite well; know how to react when they show a certain attitude, know what to do to get their attention. However, will it be fun to have such a relationship?
Whether we are still special to our spouses’ after years of togetherness – which usually is a mixed-up combination of, mostly, fulfilling daily needs and maintaining the nicely-kept still-full-of-love relationship – is a question we usually ask. The answer to that question is as simple as ‘yes’. The second before-mentioned task seems to be the hardest in a relationship, but it’s actually an easy, even fun one. We just have to stop for a while and have a look again.